You may think that your relationship is going perfect but if she thinks otherwise, and is unhappy in the relationship, than a surprise breakup may be on the horizon.
A breakup can be caused from a build-up of unhappy feelings that she hasn't been able to communicate to you for whatever reason. Guys have a way of not understanding the cues that their girlfriend is unhappy, and girls have a way of not outright telling their guy they are unhappy until that final breakup moment. Therefore if you want to avoid a breakup you are going to have to keep your eyes open for some signs of her being unhappy in the relationship.
3 Signs She is Unhappy in The Relationship
1. She Doesn't Talk To You about Things That Make Her Happy
If the only conversations you are having with her are negative ones then this may be a huge sign that she is unhappy in the relationship. Nagging, judging, complaining, and whining are all a part of being unhappy.
A happy woman will be excited to share fun stories with you, no matter how small they are, and she will feel connected to you through her conversations is a positive way. If you have a woman who is generally not happy during conversation with you, then you have a woman who is not happy and you need to fix the relationship.
2. She Would Rather Spend Time with Her Friends Than You
If all of her free time is devoted to everyone but you then you know that your woman is not happy with you and the relationship. Women want quality time with a man they love. It's unusual for a woman not to want to spend some time with their man.
I had a friend who would constantly use her husband as a babysitter. He never got to come out with us and when he did she was wishing that he wasn't there. They are divorced now. If you feel like my friends ex husband's story relates to you, then you need to fix your relationship - quick.
3. Sex Has Dwindled To Nothing
Sex is a huge part of a loving and happy relationship. If you find that your woman would rather poke her eyes out then have sex you should be trying to fix the issue.
There are many reasons that a woman would not want to have sex, but one huge reason is not being happy with the relationship. No woman wants to have sex with a guy they are pissed off at or annoyed with or don't feel close with. A loving connection of some sort has to be there in order for her to want sex. Fire up that connection before it's too late.
Can You Fix Your Relationship?
If you see these signs that indicate she is unhappy can you fix the relationship? Well, it depends. She may be so detached from you and the loving feelings she once had that she may already have one mental foot out the door. To get her back into the relationship you are going to have to work at it! Working at the relationship means commitment, communication, and patience. If you don't have those three things then you may not have a hope in re-establishing a connection between you two.
Also, you can't spend some time working on the relationship and stop once you think she is satisfied again. This is a life-long commitment. If you don't constantly strive to improve your relationship then the only other way for it to go is down. You will start settling into old ways or doing things that make her unhappy again and that will solidify her need to get out of the relationship even more than before you began trying to repair it.
So put in the effort and you will get out the rewards, but slack off in the relationship and you will be dealing with an unhappy woman and a possible breakup in the near future. Your choice.